The soul-invested artisan is the exact opposite. They take every comment, every look, every offer as a personal accolade or offense. When the piece is finally carried off, they feel separation anxiety and find it hard to believe the money in their hand is worth the effort they put into the piece. Every day they wait to sell a piece is one more day that they wonder if they will ever make it as a business person. All they want to do is paint and the marketing side is a major inconvenience.
Each has their own unique talents and can see beauty in each stroke of the brush. Each garners a unique artist’s eye that can define what is great in every color they choose and how they can be combines to bring beauty to an otherwise outdated and unwanted canvas.
Yet, Each is Foreign to the Other
The SIA constantly looks for the bottom line but it keeps changing. They are often frustrated with the business end of flipping. The BIA cocks their head when they hear of the emotional response of a soul-invested artisan regarding a rude comment or missed sale of a piece and wonders why they find it so hard.
The great similarity between the two is that each is able to create beauty in their own right. How is this? The quality of artistic talent does not hinge on the buyer. The ability to create art is a gift that is generated deep within the artist. At the last stroke, the art is complete whether one or a hundred people admire it. If the piece were never seen again for another person, it would still be art.
Therein lies the answer to the question, “How do we handle the occasional critic who does not value our work?” Whether a SIA or BDA, the low-baller or critical customer is irritating and bothersome.
The answer is, “We don’t.”
If our art is complete in itself, and we can see the beauty and quality of our craftsmanship or re-design, then the rest, the admiration or the sale of our piece is just a side benefit. It is a great benefit, but it is not how we judge our value.
We need to consider our good name and business goals in every move we make from picking out our canvas to completing the sale. Our actions will determine whether our art is ever seen.
Balancing the Emotional Expression With Our Business Goals
Sure, we may be creating our art for profit and our motivation may be filling our bank accounts or feeding our families, but that is an extension of what we are doing. Creating art is creating beauty. That alone is our satisfaction. But the emotional end of it needs to end there. If another person cannot see the value in our art, then it’s their loss. If it truly is quality art, we will find someone who will see it and value it enough to want to own it. There is where the business end takes over. Our marketing is purely a means to an end and must be viewed and executed without emotion.
How Do We Handle the “Trolls”?
Our only responsibility is to create beauty and put it out there for the world to see if we want to make a living at it. It’s the buyer’s responsibility to love it enough to want to own it. We just need to find that one person through savy business decisions. It only takes one person. 50 may scoff or discredit our efforts, but we only need one who appreciates the beauty like we do. Forget the 50. Find that ONE.
So how do we handle the critics, the jealous or the ignorant? How do we handle a low-ball offer to our piece of beauty?
Does it educate people if we get angry and spew insults to the ignorant?
Does it make our art more beautiful to block them from seeing it on social media?
Does it improve our brand or lift our good name, when we complain that we were low-balled?
- When someone tells us they are going to repaint the piece we poured ourselves into and spend hours planning and executing our artful efforts, then we need to say, "Ok," and then take their money and end with a smile and a "Have a nice day." Because in the end, we made our sale and our art caught their eye long enough to open their wallets and part with their cash. 'Nuff said.
When someone tells us our piece is imperfect and points out all the flaws, we understand that it isn't our art that they are unhappy with. They are just an unhappy soul that is discontent with the world around them. We understand their critical spirit did not start with their first view of our piece but is a dark cloud that follows them. Perhaps we can be the one bright spot in their day by being pleasant even through their insults. Isn't that what art should do for the unhappy soul?
When someone tells us our price is too high or colors are too bright or design is too dull, we just tell ourselves they have no appreciation for art and am grateful we find beauty all around us. We realize we are the fortunate ones.
- And lastly, when someone offers us $30 for a piece we have listed for $300, let's just say, "Thanks for the offer, but the price is firm...but perhaps you would be interested in this other piece I have that is more in your budget." Then you show them a smaller, less expensive piece that you put less materials and effort into.
We are confident lovers of art who find value not in our buyer but in the expression of ourselves on the canvas of our choice.
Hometalk is one of my best referrers to my blog, but when they feature my painted furniture on their Facebook page, the trolls come out by the dozens. Here is one of mine and a couple of the typical comments I get:
It was somewhat amusing to read them - one said they had the exact set and paid $2000 for it and would never consider painting it. I responded with, “Then don’t paint them. You should be able to enjoy your furniture in your own home the way you like.”
Another claimed it was an antique and it was a travesty to paint it. They were not antiques, rather, they were part of the mass produced pieces of furniture we saw in the 70s and 80s. There is no way this set was originally $2000. If it was, that man that paid $2000 was ripped off. BUT, after the set was painted, it was beautiful in an old world style and sold for a nice price. The buyers loved the set and sent me a picture of them in their new home.
The Take Away
We are the ones who are free. We are the ones who are surrounded in beauty. We are the ones who pick up a brush and give another hundred years of life. Knowing and believing that, how can we enter into a negative exchange or get depressed over someone who isn’t, doesn’t and won’t ever?
Be confident. We are the blessed ones.